 Dear Doc AfroMytee, I have been more tired lately after making love with my girlfriend. I think this is pretty normal for a man (considering the work a guy can put in!). I can usually "perform" again after a brief rest, but my girl still seems to get frustrated with me. --Used to be Wicked in Bed
Dear Used, You can be wicked once again! First, let me ask you a question: Did you
know that ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things? Don't feel bad
if you didn't know--many men don't. Much to the chagrin of many women! By
learning to have an orgasm without ejaculating you can circulate the
powerful energy you would normally have let go by losing your seed. This
ancient technique is called "injaculation" or semen retention. The
Taoist and Tantrics swear by it. In fact, mastering semen retention is
considered a requirement for spiritual enlightenment for men in many
parts of the world. Sex = God, you know. Here’s what you can look forward to as an injaculator: 1. Feeling blissful and energized after sex! 2. Add many vibrant years to your life (one ejaculation = approximately FOUR
full course
meals, vitamins and all!). 3. Becoming a multi-orgasmic man! (Oh! Yes, it's twue, it's twue!
-Blazing Saddles) 4. Elevating your sex to a new spiritual high! (see practitioners
Confucius, Gandhi, and
SunTzu) Last but DAMN sure not least 5. Giving your lover hours upon hours of pleasure if she so desires! This technique involves pressing the "Million Dollar Point." This is the
area located between the scrotum and anus. Apply gentle pressure there
when you feel like you're about to ejaculate. At this point, deep
breathing is a must so that you don’t lose your seed. Relax and imagine
making those great sensations go back up your spine to the top of your
head. The more you practice -- the better you’ll get. After a while you
won’t even need to press the point (you can just tighten the muscles in
that area). But until you get to that stage get your girl to help you
out by pressing your "spot" for you. It’s always nice to share--and it
was her idea for you not to come so soon anyway, now wasn’t it? Paz y Amor, PS - We'll talk about male potency herbs soon. Not to Worry!
Dr. AfroMytee physician, columnist, and all-around Goddess is here to answer questions about spiritual and healthful physical unions. (Okay, okay, SEX! SEX! SEX!) All wrapped up in a tasty little Q & A format. Her column is understanding (when she is not retaining water), helpful (if not, you folks will come back asking more questions, sigh...), informative (research, divulging private, personal and painful experiences, yadda yadda yadda) and appears regularly (must be all those bran muffins). Send your comments and questions to AfroMytee@yahoo.com 
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