Dear Doc AfroMytee,

Is it strange for a man to want to engage in oral pleasing of his girl all night long? I enjoy doing it and it doesn't bother me if we don't have intercourse. Now, I'm not saying that I don't enjoy intercourse, but some nights (and days!) all I wanna do is orally please. As long as my partner enjoys herself, I'm
happy.

Tongue Lash-her
 

Dear Tongue,

Hmmm ... (I scoot quickly back to the lair) ... let's call up some of the guyz, read your letter to them and get a poll on your puddy-tat pastime...

Samson (who's the inspiration behind the legend of the Tongue-Master)
says: "What's wrong with that? Sounds like he gets off on seeing his girl get
off. It's all good to me. Is the girl complaining?"

Complain? Methinks not O, Tongue-Master Samson.

Hannibal (secretly known to women as Hannibal the Cannibal for his oral proclivities) says:
"This guy is a highly marketable property. And please advise him that is bordering on copyright infringement by stealing my gimmick."

That Cannibal! (shaking my head)

Sam (openly known as Sam) says:
"I've heard stranger things. I can understand him wanting to make his woman feel good but I can't say that I could be in an intimate situation with some beautiful
woman, pleasing her and not want to be pleased. But, hey, maybe that's how he gets his kicks."

Sam just had to throw something in there that was all about him, huh? The best lovers are altruistic, for chris sakes! Sigh. Sam ... go to jail, do not collect $200 and
do a lil' reading while you're there! [link to D32] That'll learn ya!

Jah-Sun says:
"I don't see any problem. I take that road myself ... WHY? Because a man's energy/cycle sometimes conflicts with a woman's cycle (i.e. he needs to rest and she is looking for climax). Therefore, when a MAN knows himself and his cycle, he knows when to be simply a pleaser and not the please ... Am I making sense?"

Umm hmm ... and how! I am diggin' how he wrote MAN all in caps! Heh heh heh.

My opinion?
Goddess bless you, sir! There is nothing wrong with you ... not a damn thing! Hey, the Taoists and Tantrics say that drinking from the Jade Fountain brings longevity
and vibrancy to a man. And you thought it was just the flavor that you savored! Rejoice in your membership in the Oral Majority!

Egads, man! How am I gonna handle the great preponderance of e-mail from your hoards of new female admirers? Ah ... just imagine for a moment the multitudes of women lying in bed next to their snoring mates (staring at that infernal, dusty light fixture on the ceiling), secretly wishing they were arching their backs with you. I
suppose their creative nocturnal visualizations will have to suffice.

Paz y Amor,

Doc AfroMytee

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