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JOHNNY BLADE
CUTTIN' TO THE BONE In the second and final half of what was intended to be a three-part examination of the world of BDSM in Nashville, I explore the personality of a woman that lives the BDSM lifestyle. Because of the sensitive nature of this topic and the graphic depictions of the BDSM scene I would have to relay in order to give a full and accurate representation of this fast rising underground culture, I feel it is better to close this series at this time. The bottom line is the target market of PURR is composed of readers of all ages and I feel a moral obligation to protect the minds of our youth until they are able to process adult oriented content and make informed choices on their own as adults. Likewise, this is the reasoning that led me to the decision not to publish the final interview and pictures with Madame DR Lusk and finish with the third segment. In any event, I believe this interview contains the message that the BDSM community wants to convey to the "Vanilla" world. So, read between the lines, process and interpret, and hopefully come to understand why this interview is the finale. Now, buckle up. The no smoking signs are on, sit back and view the darker side of sexuality and passion through the eyes of a funny, intellectual, mother and slave named Lisa. Blade: First, let me begin by thanking you for taking the time to do this interview and lets just start at the beginning with you name shall we? Lisa: Sure...but don't thank me, Master gave me his permission to talk to you. Blade: Well when you see him tell him I said thanks. Lisa: My pleasure. Blade: So how do I refer to you?
Blade: How old are you if you don't mind me asking.
Lisa: I am 31, Master is a bit older. Blade: I want the readers to have a visual, a feel for who you are. Would you rather describe yourself to our readers or have me? Lisa: Lets just say I have wet lips, huggin' hips and 38DD pierced breasts. Blade: ...I was hoping you would go a little further in-depth...help me out here?
Lisa: Ok, my hair is dark brown and almost waist length. I like to give Master something to grab on to. Blade: Thanks...what do you plan to do with your degree? Lisa: I want to do research for the public relations department of the Republican Party. Blade: Your kidding? Lisa: No, really! I may not have a bush but I am voting for one in November.
Blade: Lisa: Hey, I'm serious here! I am very politically minded and socially active during the election years. Blade: Well.... Lisa: Its OK, I'm just poking fun at ya. But really, I am very serious about my goals. Blade: So...what university did/do you attend?
Lisa: I went to a small community college for my Associates and then the school of hard knocks as well as Painslut University where Master is the Dean. Blade: Well at least tell me what denomination. Lisa: Did you say domination? Blade: OK, this is a losing battle. So, what do you do, work wise I mean?
Lisa: Is this an interview or a job application? Blade: Really? Merchandising? Let me guess...whips and chains?
Lisa: No silly, I deal in popular collectibles you naughty boy. Blade: How's business? Lisa: Nonya. Blade: You sound like a busy woman?
Lisa: You try working and raising kids as a single mom, no wonder I am in D/s. Blade: Speaking of.....how long have you been involved in swinging and BDSM?
Blade: How did you find or get started in the BDSM lifestyle?
Lisa: Before Master, I was married twice. Both times to dead beat unimaginative men that stifled my sexuality and me. Quite frankly, I got tired of closing my eyes and laying down for five minutes while they got theirs, and I was left to fantasize about the life, lovers and experiences I wanted to have. So, I decided it was time for me to live my life the way I wanted. I moved loser number two out, let down my hair and just gave it away in those days. You know girls just wanna have fun and get theirs too. Blade: Well who was the first to introduce you BDSM? Lisa: Umm...the first steady "play" partner was a guy I met on ALT.COM. I stayed with him a while but he turned into another jerk so I walked. It is hard to find good men that can sustain a relationship, or an erection, sexual or otherwise. Then I met my current Master and everything just clicked. I'll do anything on Master's command because I have a solid base to draw strength from now. He allows me to, hell, he demands that I be the painslut I am. I hope that makes sense? Blade: Whatever works has always been my point of view, I'm not here to judge anyone. You came in with MS. Dhark and she had a collar and chain around your neck, are you bisexual?
Lisa: Well, not really, I have kissed another woman and I have touched but I have never dived down there. In fact, a woman pierced my nipples in a scene in a local dungeon here in Nashville. But personally, I still feel like there are so many men and so little time... Blade: What is fire play? Lisa: She is going to set me on fire, plain and simple. She uses a 70% alcohol solution. It is like a warm oil rub when it is torched. One night she wrote master's initials on my back in flames and took a pic for him to see. I really like fire play a lot. Blase: That sounds intense. Lisa: No, it is really kinda tame, you should try it. Blade: Maybe next time..so..tell me about your children? Lisa: I've been blessed several times with great rug rats. We are just the average family next door, no kidding. Brick house, they are A students, fight over each other's boyfriends and make up, you know, the usual stuff. Blade: That's interesting. Do they know what you do...how old are they?
Blade: I really think that's great. So many parents don't even try to make time for their kids anymore it seems. I understand your not from Nashville, so where do you call home? Lisa: I reside smack dab in the middle of the bible belt, you know, where men are men and sheep run scared. Blade: Lets not go there...
Lisa: Sigh... Blade: You said you have a Master, is he your husband now? Lisa: NO! I am a collared slave to Master Flesher. Another husband is the last thing I want or need! He also has two other slaves he plays with when I am not in town. Blade: And you're not jealous with the sharing? Lisa: No. There is no reason to be, we are slaves and we accept our roles. In fact, we are all good friends. We all have different psychological, emotional and physical needs, it they are being met, why curse a good thing? Blade: Well....I had to ask that one, sorry. Lisa: It's OK. Blade: Lets talk about when you lost your virginity?
Lisa: I was somewhere around 14 or almost. Blade: How? Lisa: Four of us skipped school and went to this older guy's house. We just kinda paired off and after a while we switched partners. So, I kinda lost my cherry with two guys. I guess you could say I was born to live an alternative lifestyle. Blade: What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done? Lisa: Oh, can we go here? This is a hard one; you'll have to pick it. There was one night Master made me strip and he put a chain around my neck and led me down the road a quarter mile naked and made me lay down and straddle the yellow lines while he..... {Ten minutes later} Blade: OK, that's enough, none of those episodes will ever make it to print but thanks for sharing, really. Have you ever made or been in any videos?
Lisa: Yes, I have and I was scared to death! Now days those that know me say I'm the pic queen. Blade: Are they for sale? Lisa: Not to my knowledge, they were just good clean fun and for a personal collection. They were a part of a two part all BDSM video. WOW! They were shot in this very dungeon and it is all BDSM. The play lasted nine hours and there were three slaves, my Master and a Dominatrix, Madame DR Lusk. I still bare the marks of that night. Some of the pictures you have are from that night. Let me tell ya, we did it all! Blade: How many people, men and women, have you had sex with? Lisa: My best guess would be 150-200 men. Blade: Don't you worry about HIV? Lisa: I never jump without a parachute except with Master. Besides, all of those men were not sexual, many were just play partners. Blade: What is the highest number of people who you have had sex with in one night? Lisa: Only four to date, although, there were more in the room but I am hoping that will change soon. Master has promised to arrange a scene for me if I am a good/bad girl. I'm just keeping my fingers crossed, my lips wet and waiting quietly. Blade: What is the one fantasy that you have that you will probably never do? Lisa: I would have to say it would be total body fire play. I love it but it can really burn you up if you're not careful. I can't get enough fire play, like I said, that is why I am here tonight. Just the thought of being totally torched is an organism in itself. Blade: What advice do you have for a beginner? Lisa: Find your limits, play extreme, if that is what you need, f*** hard, get yours but always remember to be SAFE, SAFE, SAFE. The keyword in being in the life is life, so think before you leap and live long enough to enjoy every inch of what it has to offer. I would also encourage everyone to educate themselves in the BDSM lifestyle through the Internet and by attending local workshops, seminars, and as a guest at one of the local dungeons in their city. Blade: Do you have any closing comments? Lisa: Well, I just wanna thank you for asking me to do this interview. This is my first ever and I am very excited. Besides, so many people have the wrong impression of BDSM. I'm a mother and an educated individual, I pay my taxes, and I'm drug and disease free and love my children. If I can find a place to fill the void in my life and someone else is looking to find the same thing, maybe they know they're not alone or crazy now. BDSM is not for everyone but it is for more of us than you might think. Just always remember; safe, sane and consensual is the rule of thumb. Blade: One last thing. Lisa: Yes? Blade:PURR for me? Lisa: Meow...catdaddy. STAY TUNED WITH PURR! BLADE IS "BACK IN BLACK" THIS OCTOBER WITH THE WICCA WITCHES!
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Lisa: Well, Master Flesher named me painslut but my birth name is Lisa. However, I better stick with painslut, it really does fit me better (Giggles).
Lisa: I am not sure if swinging is the right term here but it will work for now I guess. I am a collared slave to
Master Flesher. I do as I am told, period. If his wish is for me to have sex with a stranger in an alley, endure needle play or just endure a simple flogging session, or even give me away to someone for the night, I obey. I do not play (Swing) without his permission. Although, he does encourage me to find new adventures for us both to enjoy. I guess you might say we are alternative swingers for lack of a better adjective, or is that a noun? 
Lisa: Well, they found some pictures a while back because they were snooping around where they shouldn't have been. So, they know I am not a saint but they are really too young to understand what some adults really like, or how they fulfill their individual needs. So, I feel OK with what happened for the most part and I don't believe, I know it didn't, have any lasting psychological effects on them. Besides, the same grab I was wearing is the same thing you see kids on MTV wearing. I love my girls, I would never consciously or intentionally hurt them in any shape, from or fashion. In fact, I am considered everyone's favorite mom figure by their friends. I'm the one with the car that takes them all to Sonic for burgers and the fair and so on. Oh, yeah, I have a couple of teenagers and one that thinks she is. 